I’m a little flabberghasted right now.
I don’t think that’s how you spell that word – but it works.
I have realized lately when scrolling through Pinterest, or random blogs, or just the internet in general; there are SO many things to read along the lines of “10 things to do for your husband/man”.
Okay. WHAT THE FUCK.
I’m sorry – but last time I checked like 99.3% of women treated their men like kings – in hope of getting the queen treatment in return. I mean, yea maybe one of those 10 things we hadn’t thought of – but I feel like going out of your way to be the ‘perfect’ girlfriend/wife/wtfever is just fucking stupid.
It’s sad to me how chauvinistic this world ACTUALLY is. Like, I’m all for a man working and a woman staying home, cooking, cleaning, whatever…but to then expect her to be at your every beck and call, your personal chef and sex monkey, your maid, your mommy, your doctor and EVERYTHING else that she is for you – every day – and then STILL expect more when YOU do nothing for her like that? Yea…you take care of her…but, she can actually do that on her own.
I think that’s the thing that women don’t actually realize, hell I don’t think men realize it either…there is not a single woman out there that NEEDS a man in her life. Women chose to have men in their lives, they want them there.
There are plenty of positive things a man can add to your life, but shit – you are actually just fine alone.
I guess being who I am, and being able to do almost anything I need to do by myself makes me annoyed by all this shit. I challenge any woman reading this today to go out and find something they think they need a man for and learn how to do it themselves!
It can be as simple as changing a tire or the oil in your car, or as elaborate as building your own bed.
I don’t care what it is – or if a man teaches you to do it…but LEARN something new, and that you don’t NEED a man to do everything for you.
If anyone ACTUALLY does this – I would love to hear how it goes 🙂 firstname.lastname@example.org
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